Protecting Your Identity

Protecting Your Identity

Get HelpThe National Coalition Against Domestic Violence recommends the following measures to guard your identity:

Steps to Take to Protect Your Identity

  • Relocate.  Moving across town, across the state or across the country puts physical distance between you and the abuser.  Be sure to obtain an unlisted phone number and be aware of the Full Faith and Credit provisions in your restraining order, which make the order valid when you travel to another state or tribal jurisdiction.
  • Apply to the address confidentiality program in your state.  These types of programs allow individuals who have experienced domestic violence, sexual assault, stalking or other types of crime to receive mail at a confidential address, while keeping their actual address undisclosed.  Rules and eligibility vary from state to state. Click here for state to state address confidentiality info...
  • Open a post office box. Abusers may be able to open fraudulent credit cards by responding to credit card offers received in the mail.  A post office box may prevent this if only you have access to it.  Be wary of the confidentiality policies of non-government post office box centers such as Mail Boxes, Etc…and the fact that it may not be possible to remain anonymous in rural towns while accessing the post office.
  • Protect your incoming and outgoing mail.  Shred all credit card offers that come in the mail along with other documents that have your name, address and/or social security number on them.  Mail bills and other sensitive documents directly from the post office instead of from the mailbox on your porch or at the end of your driveway.  Call 1-800-5OPT-OUT to stop receiving credit card offers in the mail.
  • Guard your social security number.  Do not use your social security number as a general ID, PIN or password.  Request to have your social security number removed from documents you receive in the mail and ID cards for health insurance, driving, work, etc… Click here to read about changing your social security number. Click on Open.
  • Check your credit report.  The best way to determine if someone has committed fraud against you is to check your credit report with all three credit bureaus at least once per year.  Visit to obtain a free yearly credit report.  You can also make a request to have a fraud alert placed on your credit report.  Click here to find out how to contact the credit bureaus. Click on Open.
  • Report suspected fraud.  Contact local law enforcement if you know of or suspect fraud and ask to file a report.  Check and/or close accounts you believe have been tampered.  File a report with the Federal Trade Commission at 1-877-ID-THEFT and the Social Security Administration Fraud Hotline at 1-800-269-0271.  File copies of police reports with credit bureaus. 
  • Protect information you give out.  Never give any identifying information over the phone or through email or the internet unless you initiated the call or have verification that the website or email communication is secure.
  • Secure access to information. Change passwords and PINs for all accounts on and off-line. Choose complex passwords and PINs that the abuser would not know or figure out.  Keep this information in a secure location.

What Should I do if I become a Victim of Identity Theft?

Create a Record of Fraud. A victim can contact local law enforcement to file a police report if they suspect fraudulent use of their personal information. This action may result in a police investigation of the abuser; so, the victim should determine if this is a safe choice for them. The victim should check and/or close accounts if she/he feels their identifying information has been compromised. The victim can file a report with the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) at 1-877-ID-THEFT and the Social Security Administration Fraud Hotline at 1-800-269-0271 and/or file copies of police reports or an FTC affidavit with credit bureaus.

The U.S. Department of Justice offers additional guidance and links to resources to help you act immediately to minimize the damage to your personal funds and financial accounts, as well as your reputation. See also Frequently Asked Questions About Identity Theft.

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